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Developmental Milestones Many Misunderstand (Part 1)

What are children capable of learning at various stages in their development? How do children develop the intellectual skills to react and interact with their environment? How do these cognitive abilities develop, and in what order?

These are some of the questions often asked by first-time parents or parents who are unsure of the developmental milestones listed by clinicians and researchers.

These were some of the questions that were answered by French Psychologist, Jean Piaget, in 1952 when he published his ground-breaking theory on cognitive development in children.

Piaget (1967) began his research focusing on how children react to their environments, but his observations countered the current thinking of the day (which stated that children have no cognition until they are old enough to learn to speak), and have, in fact, become the most well-known and influential theory of cognitive development to date.

Here are the four cognitive stages of childhood development as identified by Piaget (1967)

1. Sensorimotor Stage: Birth through, approximately, 3 years.

During this stage, children learn about the world through their senses and the manipulation of objects.

2. Preoperational Stage: Ages 3 through 7.

During this stage, children develop memory and imagination. They are also able to understand things symbolically, and the ideas of past and future.

3. Concrete Operational Stage: Ages 7 through 11.

During this stage, children become more aware of external events, as well as feelings other than their own. They become less egocentric and begin to understand that not everyone shares their thoughts, beliefs, or feelings.

4. Formal Operational Stage: Ages 11 and older.

During this stage, children are able to use logic to solve problems, view the world around them, and plan for the future.

In this article, we will focus on the Sensorimotor Stage (birth through, approximately, 3 years of age) and the developmental milestones associated with this stage.

Babies grow in unique ways…

The baby who sits up weeks before her peers might be one of the last to learn how to crawl. The 18-month-old who is still communicating with grunts and gestures suddenly bursts out with prepositional phrases at 2 years. This is why it is important to emphasize that this is merely a guideline which has been put together using existing findings.

- 0 – 3 Month Milestones:

Motor Milestones:

  • Whilst lying on their tummy, they are able to push up on their arms

  • Whilst lying on their tummy, they are able to lift and hold their head up

  • Ability to move their fists from closed to open

  • Ability to bring their hands to mouth

  • Moving their legs and arms off of a surface when excited

Sensory Milestones:

  • Whilst lying on their back, they attempt to reach for a toy held above their chest

  • Whilst lying on their back, visually tracks a moving toy from side to side

  • While lying on back, keeps head centred to watch faces or toys

  • Able to calm with rocking, touching, and gentle sounds

  • Enjoys a variety of movements

Communication Milestones:

  • Quietens down when in distress or smiles in response to sound or voice

  • Turns their head towards sound or your voice

  • Shows interest in faces

  • Makes eye contact

  • Cries differently for different needs (e.g. hungry vs. tired)

  • Coos and smiles

Feeding Milestones:

  • Latches onto the nipple or bottle

  • Tongue moves forward and back to suck

  • Drinks 59ml to 177ml of liquid per feeding

  • Sucks and swallows well during feeding

- 4 - 6 Month Milestones:

Motor Milestones:

  • Uses their hands to support themselves while sitting

  • Rolls from back to tummy and tummy to back

  • While standing with support, accepts entire weight with their legs

  • Reaches for nearby toys while on tummy

  • Whilst lying on their back, reaches with both hands to play with feet

  • Whilst lying on their back, transfers a toy from one hand to the other

Sensory Milestones:

  • Uses both of their hands to explore the toys in their environment

  • Generally happy when they are not hungry or tired

  • Brings both of their hands and other objects to their mouth

  • Able to calm/soothe them with rocking motions, touching, and gentle sounds

  • Does not get upset by everyday sounds

  • Enjoys a variety of movements

Communication Milestones:

  • Reacts to sudden noises or sounds

  • Listens and responds when spoken to

  • Begins to use consonant sounds in babbling, e.g. “da, da, da” or “mum, mum, mum”

  • Makes different kinds of sounds to express their feelings

  • Notices toys that make sounds

  • Uses babbling to get attention

Feeding Milestones:

  • Shows interest in food

  • Opens mouth as spoon approaches their mouth

  • Moves pureed food from front of mouth to back

  • Begins to eat cereals and pureed foods – Smooth, pureed food (single ingredient only) e.g. carrots, sweet potato, butternut, apples, pears etc.

- 7 – 9 Month Milestones:

Motor Milestones:

  • Sits without support

  • Sits and reaches for toys without falling over

  • Moves from tummy or back into sitting

  • Starts to move with alternate leg and arm movement e.g. creeping, crawling

  • Picks up head and pushes through elbows during Tummy Time

  • Turns head to visually track objects while sitting

  • Shows more control while rolling and sitting

  • Picks up small objects with thumbs and fingers

  • In simple play imitates others

Sensory Milestones:

  • Enjoys a variety of movements – bouncing up and down, rocking back and forth

  • Explores and examines an object using both hands and mouth

  • Turns several pages of a thick, cardboard book at once

  • Experiments with the amount of force needed to pick up different objects

  • Focuses on objects near and far

  • Investigates shapes, sizes, and textures of toys and their surroundings

  • Observes environment from a variety of positions – while lying on back or tummy, sitting, crawling, and standing with assistance

Communication Milestones:

  • Uses an increased variety of sounds and syllables in combination when babbling

  • Looks at familiar objects and people when named

  • Recognises the sound of their own name

  • Participates in two-way communication

  • Follows some routine commands, when paired with gestures

  • Shows recognition of commonly used words

  • Simple gestures, e.g. shaking head for “no”

  • Imitates sounds

Feeding Milestones:

  • In a highchair, holds, and drinks from a bottle

  • Begins to eat thicker pureed and mashed foods

  • Enjoys chew toys that can massage sore and swollen gums during teething

  • Stays full longer after eating

  • Starts to look and reach for objects, such as, food that is nearby

  • Shows strong reaction to new smells and taste

- 10 – 12 Month Milestones:

Motor Milestones:

  • Pulls themselves up to stand and walks along furniture

  • Stands alone and takes several independent steps

  • Moves in and out of various positions to explore the environment and to obtain desired toys

  • Maintains balance in sitting when throwing objects

  • Claps hands

  • Releases objects into a container with a large opening

  • Uses thumb and pointer finger to pick up tiny objects

Sensory Milestones:

  • Enjoys listening to songs

  • Explores toys with fingers and mouth

  • Crawls to or away from objects that they see in the distance

Communication Milestones:

  • Meaningfully uses “mama” or “dada”

  • Responds to simple directions, e.g. “Come here”

  • Produces long strings of babble in social communication

  • Says one or two words

  • Imitates speech sounds

  • Babbling has sounds and rhythms of speech (pitch and tone)

  • Pays attention to where you are looking and pointing

  • Responds to “no”

  • Begins using hand movements to communicate wants and needs, e.g. reaches to be picked up

Feeding Milestones:

  • Able to feed themselves using their fingers

  • Eating an increasing variety of food

  • Begins to use an open cup as opposed to a ‘sippy’ cup

  • Ready to try soft-cooked vegetables, soft fruits, and finger foods (banana slices, cooked pasta)

  • Might be ready to start self-feeding with utensils

  • Enjoys a greater variety of smells and tastes

- 13 – 18 Month Milestones:

Motor Milestones:

  • Walks independently

  • Squats to pick up a toy

  • Stacks two objects on top of one another

Sensory Milestones:

  • Helps with getting dressed/undressed

  • Sticks to a regular sleep schedule

  • Eats an increasing variety of foods

Communication Milestones:

- By 15 months:

  • May use 5-10 words

  • Combines sounds and gestures

  • Imitates simple words and actions

  • Consistently follows simple directions

  • Shows interest in pictures

  • Can identify 1-2 body parts when named

  • Understands 50 words

- By 18 months:

  • Responds to questions

  • Repeats words overheard in conversation

  • Continues to produce speech-like babbling

  • Points at familiar objects and people in pictures

  • Understands “in” and “on”

  • Responds to yes/no questions with head shake/nod

Feeding Milestones:

  • Increases to eat a variety of coarsely chopped foods

- 19 – 24 Motor Milestones:

- By 21 months:

  • Uses at least 50 words

  • Consistently imitates new words

  • Names objects and pictures

  • Understands simple pronouns (me, you, my)

  • Identifies 3-5 body parts when named

  • Understands new words quickly

- By 24 months:

  • Begins to use 2-word phrases

  • Uses simple pronouns (me, you, my)

  • Understands action words

  • Uses gestures and words during pretend play

  • Follows 2-step related directions e.g. “Pick up your coat and bring it to me”

  • Enjoys listening to stories

- 2 – 3 Year Motor Milestone:

- By 30 months:

  • Consistently uses 2-3-word phrases

  • Uses “in” and “on”

  • At least 50% of their speech is understood by the caregiver

  • Follows 2-step unrelated directions, e.g. “give me the ball and go get your coat”

  • Understands basic nouns and pronouns

  • Understands “mine” and “yours”

- By 36 months:

  • Asks “what” and “where” questions

  • Uses plurals, e.g. “dogs and cats”

  • Most of their speech is understood by the caregiver

  • Simple understanding of concepts including colour, space, time

  • Understands “why” questions

  • Understands most simple sentences

Since babies are not identical, please note that these guidelines allow for variations in the various stages of development. Use them to gain insight into what you are observing in your baby and to preview what you can look forward to in the months and years ahead.

Enjoy this special time with your baby, you will find that your bundle of joy will reach various milestones in a blink of an eye.

Look out for our next article where we will focus on the next stage of development (Preoperational Stage: Ages 3 through 7) and the milestones which are associated with this age group.

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